I found myself wakeful in the middle of the other night,
restless and unable to relax. I had too
much energy to stay in bed, but the bed was warm, the house was cold, and I
reminded myself that it was the middle of the night and I should be sleeping.
Then I started using the pair of statements I’d just learned
from Dr. Dain Heer. (www.drdainheer.com) What an
interesting opinion. I hold that
opinion. It’s a great way to
investigate what you think and ultimately why you think it:
It’s late. I should be asleep. What an interesting opinion. I hold that opinion. I thought back to where I acquired that
opinion. After all, babies – us in our
most natural, uneducated state – do not sleep through the night. One of the first things parents try to teach
babies is "to sleep through the night!"
One of the questions most often asked of new parents is “Is the baby
sleeping through the night yet?” We
justify it by saying that babies wake in the night because their stomachs are
too small to hold enough food to keep them “full” for 5 or 6 or 8 hours.
But what if that’s not true?
During caveman times, keeping a fire stoked all night protected the
tribe against predators and kept them all warm.
Even now in perilous times and locations, a group will post lookouts who
take turns watching so the others can sleep.
So, what if babies were the caveman’s alarm system to remind
someone: “Get up here. The fire’s dwindling and I’m getting cold!” Those clans whose members were sound sleepers
probably died out earlier than those with wakeful members where there was
always someone willing to get up, add wood to the fire, check the perimeters,
and, incidentally feed the baby.
So, next time you can’t sleep, thank your caveman ancestors
and note: What an interesting opinion. I
hold that opinion. See where it
takes you.
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